30 November 2009
Writing, Editing, and Rewriting
07 November 2009
Down Time
05 November 2009
Choices and Traps
13 October 2009
The Johari Window
I know what I think I am portraying to people around me. But, is that how they view me? This can be painstaking to uncover. Yet, the rewards for delving into this issue can be extraordinary. Suddenly, perhaps, you may realize that people like you for characteristics you never realized you possessed.
I am not suggesting that people are always correct in their perceptions, but perhaps you are exuding something which you did not realize. For example, I chose to apply for the Foreign Service recently. Several people (who did not know one another) suggested that I think about diplomatic relations as a career path. Frankly, I had never thought of it, but 3 different people from different backgrounds thought that it would be a perfect match for me. They saw something inside of me which I missed, a desire to use my communication and diplomacy skills in an ever-changing environment. I did not even know that people viewed me as "diplomatic" and yet several people have said it to me throughout the past year.
Slowly, I am painting a picture of the difference between how others see me and how I thought I projected myself. Between listening to others' opinions on me and understanding myself, I am minimizing those blind spots. I can see myself more clearly.
The Johari Window is a great personal tool. the better I know myself via curtailing the blind spots and decreasing the unknown, I will be a happier, more productive person.
28 September 2009
Book Review: "Emotional Intelligence"
- Knowing one's emotions: one must understand his/her own feelings before managing them
- Managing emotions: taking control of one's emotions rather than having them rule one's life
- Motivating oneself: understanding what interests a person and how to be productive
- Recognizing emotions in others: recognition leads to greater understanding of people and therefore empathy
- Handling relationships: being able to manage one's own emotions and that of someone else is a necessary life skill
- Be specific. Don't use vague examples, but rather provide clear, concise examples that the other party will understand.
- Offer a solution. Feedback should be useful and pertinent.
- Be present. Both critiques and praise should be done in private and done in person.
- Be sensitive. Be empathic and try to understand the other person's viewpoint when giving feedback.
20 September 2009
Foreign Service Officers Test: FSOT
22 July 2009
Status Update
Now that I am back, over my jet lag, more accustomed to the life and weather in L.A., and settled in a bit, I can re-focus on finishing my final project for my MBA, looking for a job, and studying Japanese.
The process of "reverse" culture shock has been a bit time consuming for me, as I knew it would be. I've been living abroad for 4 years, 3 in Japan and 1 in France. This in conjunction with living in California, where I have never lived previously, has been a somewhat difficult transition for me.
Onwards and upwards.
I am, as I mentioned, trying to hammer out my final project for graduate school. I am writing a business plan, but the requirements that my professor wants versus what should be done in a usual plan seem to converge. As such, I am striving to do what is necessary to graduate and what needs to be done to make this a workable plan. The pieces are coming together, so I must continue to work diligently to finish.
I'll post more soon.
04 June 2009
Start Small, Think Big
As the saying goes, Rome wasn't built in a day. Nor is anything else worth really doing in most cases.
For me, a great example is Japanese. My progress of Japanese was a slow, sometimes grueling and laborious task. I cannot begin to calculate how many hours I actually studied, the frustration involved, or the miscommunications that arose. Yet at some point, I realized that my Japanese was decent. I could ramble on and on for hours at a time. There were even some people who were initially better than me, but I gradually overtook some of them as I put in so much more time and effort. I still have a long ways to go, in my opinion. Yet, sometimes I do know things that even some native Japanese speakers do not.
I know kaizen to be powerful and effective, but lately I have felt that I was not making progress. I realize now this is due to my impatience. I am achieving a great deal. Mostly, a few small steps are made on one project continually whilst on others, leaps are being made from time to time. It depends on my energy and the project at hand. To understand my accomplishments, I have been trying to step back from it all and analyze the situation from a more objective stance. This allows me to see the progression and take the next necessary steps to get to my target.
If one has passion, then anything is possible. According to Malcolm Gladwell, all it seems that enough of a minimum effort must be made (this would, in my opinion, differ with each person) in order to accomplish said goal. Scott H. Young has a great article on this concept.
Slow and steady wins the race. I will accomplish my goals, bit-by-bit. 頑張りましょう。
***A complete side note. I'd like to wish my dad a happy 70th birthday! With 5 kids, it's amazing we never gave him a heart attack. I love you, Papa!!!!
25 May 2009
Book Review: "Meatball Sundae: How New Marketing is Transforming the Business World" By Seth Godin
Anyone in business is certainly facing a major paradigm shift in how to market. Seth Godin builds on Thomas McCraw's reasoning that there have been 3 major industrial revolutions. Godin goes onto to say that the 4th is the next one in which we are entering.
What intrigues me is that the 4th revolution seems similar to what life was like previous to the 1st: people working for themselves, perhaps at home, in a community oriented fashion (althought the community is no longer defined by geography). The difference lies in who has the power, finally consumers can get whatever they like without having big corporations or the fuedal lord telling them what they want. Essentially, we are all getting what humans have always wanted: to be treated with respect and to be connected to other like-minded people.
Godin gives 14 trends as tactical advice in the New Marketing. As he points out, "Successful organizations are built around successful marketing tactics. Without the tactics, there's nothing." Certainly marketing is essential to all business models, and marketing should be embraced at the core of every business.
As I am writing a business plan, of which I do not want to reveal at this junction, but the most pertiant points, in my opinion, are:
- Trend 1: Direct Communciation Between Producers and Consumers
- Trend 2: Amplifciation of the Voice of the Consumer and Independent Authorities
- Trend 5: The Long Tail
- Trend 12: The Shift from "How Many" to "Who"
What other business books would you recommend? I hope to read more of Godin's books after I get to a bookstore where English books are sold.
18 May 2009
A Myriad of Jobs
13 May 2009
Theseus-EDHEC Class of 2009
10 May 2009
Forecasting Time Management
As a result, I am taking the bull by the horns and laying out everything I can in the greatest amount of detail possible. Here is just an overview of my project list:
- Writing a business plan for a start-up design company
- Selecting a new job
- Designing a professional website for myself
- Creating a personal mood board
- Studying for the Japanese Language Proficiency Test Level 2
- Becoming more fit and healthy
- Traveling whilst in Europe before returning to the U.S.
09 May 2009
Executive Summary
I would like to introduce you to myself, the vision, and objective of my new blog. My memoirs is intended to be my opinion on professional matters in my life. I have several areas in which I would like to share and discuss with others.
A brief background: I am finishing my MBA from Theseus-EDHEC (EDHEC for short) in Nice, France. I will write a business plan for an art company starting within the next month and am currently doing research to support it. I have a myriad of life and professional experience that spans 3 continents (specifically the U.S., Japan, and France), several industries (banking, life insurance, investments, education, and niche food markets), and differing roles (Customer Service Associate, Team Leader, Compliance Officer, and English Teacher).
Vision: to create a niche for my unique skills and support others to do the same.
Thank you for your time!
Sincerely,
Rebecca J. Faught